Reflection: Honoring My Mother’s Legacy Through the Spirit of Juneteenth

June 19, it carries a dual significance for me. Four years ago, on this day, I lost my mother—an advocate for civil rights and a passionate activist whose life was dedicated to the fight for equality and justice. Coincidentally, June 19 also marks Juneteenth, a day of profound historical importance that celebrates the emancipation of enslaved African Americans in the United States. This juxtaposition of personal and collective remembrance offers a unique lens through which I can reflect on my mother’s legacy and the values I aim to uphold in my own leadership journey.

My mother was not just a figure in our family; she was a spitfire, a spark plug, and a sage. Her dedication to civil rights was evident in her every action, from teaching in schools for the underserved to working with community organizations to ensure equity. As president of my elementary schools PTA, she worked with local organizations to make sure every kid had new shoes, a warm coat for winter and at least two meals a day provided by the school. She believed in the transformative power of education and the importance of standing up for those who could not stand up for themselves. In her eyes, activism was not merely a cause; it was a way of life, one that demanded courage, compassion, and an unwavering commitment to justice.

Me and my Mom - 1 year before she passed

As I reflect on her life, I am reminded of the profound connection between her struggles and the significance of Juneteenth. This day symbolizes the end of slavery and the long, arduous journey toward freedom and equality. It’s a celebration of resilience, a reminder that while the fight for justice is far from over, every step forward is a victory worth commemorating. My mother embodied this spirit; she fought not just for her rights but for the rights of all marginalized individuals, a true representation of the ethos of Juneteenth.

Her legacy has profoundly shaped my understanding of leadership. Watching her navigate the complexities of activism taught me that true leaders are those who listen, learn, and uplift others. Leadership is not about power; it’s about responsibility—responsibility to honor the struggles of those who came before us and to pave the way for those who will follow. In the spirit of my mother’s teachings, I aspire to lead with empathy, to advocate for justice, and to create spaces where voices of marginalized communities can be amplified.

In honoring her legacy, I also recognize the importance of continuing the fight for justice. My mother’s passion fuels my own commitment to activism, reminding me that our battles are interconnected. As we celebrate Juneteenth, we must also confront the realities of systemic inequality that persist today. It is my hope that by embracing this dual legacy of personal loss and collective freedom, I can contribute to a movement that honors the past while striving for a more equitable future. On this June 19, as I honor her memory, I will also celebrate the spirit of Juneteenth—a celebration of freedom that echoes in my heart and guides my path as a leader dedicated to justice and equality.